March 02, 2017 - 12 comments

CATCH -22

From my mail.... A friend I know sent this to me. She's not entirely anonymous.



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Good day Becky am really proud of what you are doing please help me post this.

I own a shop where I sell drugs. I am a pharmacist and since I didn't get any good job immediately after school, I saved a little and asked my father to support me which he did. My step mother was aware of his support but my dad never said he was lending me the money. The shop is a year old and recently my dad called to ask me of his part. I didn't quite understand until my step mother explained that the money my dad gave me was a loan that should be returned. I am seriously going crazy. This is my dad who didn't do anything for me except for this shop he assisted me to open. I refused returning the money and I told him he never stated that it was a loan. This has turned into a big issue as my step mother is reporting me to everyone I know. What do I do? I still give them money from the little proceeds I make if I return the money should I turn my back against them? Or just forget about the talks and keep the money? I wouldn't want to start what I can't finish please help.



My dear this is a simple one. Return the money, help once in a while when you are called to. The best thing they did, was show you who they are, remember never to walk a mile for any of them any more. Show them love care and do the little you Can for them but please, return the money.
Maybe other people have their own opinion, but this is my 2cents
catch-22

12 comments:

  1. Gold2 March 2017 at 14:14

    Some kind papa sef! Step witches in mothers form. Poster return the money and block them from your life

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  2. Bose2 March 2017 at 14:25

    First time our girl is doing back to back posting. Well done girlie. Poster, give them their money haba! If you nor fit help them waka pass.

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    1. Becky Okhomina3 March 2017 at 08:30

      Bose my Bose! I got your mail on a post suggestion... I'll bring a post on that soon

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  3. Tetrina❤piddy2 March 2017 at 15:28

    Some families and their drama sha. I hope you didn't offend your father? this story looks one sided

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  4. Iamkate2 March 2017 at 16:13

    Dear poster, this people are not your family. Your father should be flogged, your step-witch( ignore my language) beaten to a pulp! Give them heir money and cut them off. Keep in touch, but stay out of touch . Solomon's wisdom to you dear

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    1. Iamkate2 March 2017 at 16:14

      Their**

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    2. Sharon Purple Ilamah2 March 2017 at 20:04

      I am a Pharmacist too and would bring you back to pharmacy jurisprudence, I expected you will know bether, money should always be on paper that is legally written. Then again, don't hurt over this, see it as a business and a lesson. Father might not always do right anyway that is a story for another day but be thankful for his sperm for without it fusing to your mums ovum you wouldn't be here, God''s design....your pain is he hasn't done anything good so I just needed to correct that. Family is the unit of a society, they might not always get it right but they are still family, as for your step mum,like Mama Kay Benson will say, forgive them, they only acted based on the knowledge they have. Then understand this there is nothing new under the sun. Apostle Paul talked about wrestling not against flesh and blood but against spiritual wickedness in high places, the rulers of darkness of this world and principalities and Christmas has made us sit above thus things. I want you to turn this negativity into positivity by first be grateful you got a loan from one not demanding interest...you know the story if it was a bank you would have paid more, then secondly please get a written document with respect to return of his money stating it was given without interest, get a lawyer to help you out if this because it could go otherwise, you could pay and get another call for interest on the money so be a grounded pharmacist and do it right this time. Then don't stop caring for your dad, he as acted wrongly and based on the knowledge he has, forgive him please forgive him. You are stronger than you think for if we love only those that love us what different will it make...I speaking try daily, the human being as we are, are complicated but we must love anyway. I love Joseph, he said their wrong towards him was for Israel posterity not just his rising and prosperity. We are family builders

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    3. Becky Okhomina3 March 2017 at 08:31

      Mama Sharon,thanks for this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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    4. Unknown3 March 2017 at 09:02

      You just said it all Sharon

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  5. chioma3 March 2017 at 14:13

    Dear poster it's okay to be angry but u need to do the needful which are paying back the money and caring for your father. Create a payment plan on how to payback the loan,continue to send money to your dad and care for him cause there is a blessing attached to it.stay strong

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  6. Becky Okhomina4 March 2017 at 00:56

    i knew you'd say this... your golden heart though

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  7. Sharon Purple Ilamah4 March 2017 at 11:48

    Thanks King becca

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